My problem is way less serious but yeah I told my mum months back that I was pansexual and she was absolutely fine with it, but at this stage I'm pretty sure I'm actuall asexual panromantic, and whenever she keeps bringing talking about me 'finding I love/sleeping with them' kinda thing and although I'm sure she'd be completely fine if I told her, it's still unnecessarily nerve wracking and dumb and uncomfortable
*hugs Inaro* It's always stressful. I can say though, most people take asexuality relatively well; there's a lot more confusion than hatred. And especially if she's already accepted pansexuality, I don't think it's likely that she'll react badly.
@ Crazy ; yes, she's basically being submissive. My mom was never religious but she's so co-dependant (I hate writing this about my mother I really do) and will do whatever she thinks will please the step monster. It's awful.
@ Mystic -hugs tightly- Thanks love
General update - still living with friends. My mom came over and gave me a key into our garage so if I needed clothes or anything I can get it when the step monster is at work.
StickyPiston wrote:@ Crazy ; yes, she's basically being submissive. My mom was never religious but she's so co-dependant (I hate writing this about my mother I really do) and will do whatever she thinks will please the step monster. It's awful.
@ Mystic -hugs tightly- Thanks love
General update - still living with friends. My mom came over and gave me a key into our garage so if I needed clothes or anything I can get it when the step monster is at work.
Gosh, that sucks. >.> That's not how a relationship should be.
Well, that's nice of your mom.
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@ Crazy Awww love ya too - you are sorta like the son I never had. I saw that on someone's FB page...and was along the same lines of what I have always told my daughter, and since y'all are young enough to be either my kid or grand kid I just wanted share it was all.
It's sometimes hard to be what other consider "different" but to me if everyone would just quit trying to put labels on others and accept them as they are the world would be a hell of a lot better place.
HiddenMystic wrote:@ Crazy Awww love ya too - you are sorta like the son I never had. I saw that on someone's FB page...and was along the same lines of what I have always told my daughter, and since y'all are young enough to be either my kid or grand kid I just wanted share it was all.
It's sometimes hard to be what other consider "different" but to me if everyone would just quit trying to put labels on others and accept them as they are the world would be a hell of a lot better place.
*climbs off the soapbox before I fall off*
I wouldn't mind that at all. Thank you~
I'm just thinking, like, why the fuck does anyone care about gender...? I'd be willing to be with anybody, provided that they have a great personality.
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