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Sochitelya wrote:Hooray for being 32 and calling my mom in hysterics because I came literally within an inch of a serious car crash due to some stupid fucking asshole pulling out in front of me in the snow. I got home, I'm safe, it might have still undone all the confidence I built up since my first (only) car accident in January 2015.

I've already texted my boss like 'I will cry if I try to come in tomorrow, will work from home.'

I've wrecked twice so far (and I'm only 21) so I understand the fear. I honestly don't even want to drive anymore -- I'm not currently. The first wreck I got into I had just gotten out of the hospital and didn't feel up to driving -- I told my parents the medication I'd been put on made me drowsy. But they kicked me out anyway to go back to university because I had to work that night. I ended up blacking out and totaling my car -- thankfully nobody else was involved and I wasn't charged with anything other than failure to maintain my lane.

The second I was getting donuts for the firm I intern for, and as I was leaving I got T-boned by a 16 year old. I was able to prove in court that she was speeding -- she was doing 55mph in a 35mph lane. Which would make her guilty -- but because I was the one pulling out I was found at fault because the judge didn't want to charge a 16 year old. Probably sounds made up and like I'm partial to myself -- but the judge literally brought me up and told me she didn't care that the girl was going 20mph over - that 'wasn't speeding' and I should think hard about what I'd tried to do getting a 16 yr old charged for the wrecking and having insurance companies going for her. Nevermind the fact that she'd almost killed me.

Driving is scary, and everyday you drive you put yourself at risk -- not just physically but monetarily if you get in an accident and are found at fault. I think a lot of people don't get that. But it is something that's become mandatory for our society in some places where city transit doesn't exist. For now I'm sticking to the bus

Leetle fire goats gendered perfectly today
I'm so glad I avoided Mother Natures mischevious weather today, thanks to long overdue vacate days. The worst is still to come-Thanksgiving- where I work can be quite demanding during the Holidays.

My school cancelled classes the WHOLE WEEK because of the smoke from the Camp Fire,,, I haven't been to class since Friday and I won't go back til Monday. The air is terrible and the student body's meme production is at an all time peak

Sochitelya wrote:Hooray for being 32 and calling my mom in hysterics because I came literally within an inch of a serious car crash due to some stupid fucking asshole pulling out in front of me in the snow. I got home, I'm safe, it might have still undone all the confidence I built up since my first (only) car accident in January 2015.

I've already texted my boss like 'I will cry if I try to come in tomorrow, will work from home.'

I'm so sorry that happened. I know how nerve-wracking it is, but I'm so glad you're all right (physically, anyway, I know you're very shaken up). Get lots of rest and stay cozy indoors while you can

DarkPanther wrote:Driving is scary, and everyday you drive you put yourself at risk -- not just physically but monetarily if you get in an accident and are found at fault. I think a lot of people don't get that. But it is something that's become mandatory for our society in some places where city transit doesn't exist. For now I'm sticking to the bus

Right? I find it terrifying. I had to explain to a new doctor a few months ago about why I don't drive, and he didn't seem to understand or feel that my aversion was reasonable. I have an anxiety disorder that affects my ability to drive safely and I still have a noticeable scar on my face from the accident (passenger) I was in earlier this year. Guess I'll just get over it and risk putting others and myself in danger on the road?

The first wreck I got into I had just gotten out of the hospital and didn't feel up to driving -- I told my parents the medication I'd been put on made me drowsy. But they kicked me out anyway to go back to university because I had to work that night. I ended up blacking out and totaling my car -- thankfully nobody else was involved and I wasn't charged with anything other than failure to maintain my lane.

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That was such a crappy and dangerous situation for you, damn.

Sochitelya wrote:Hooray for being 32 and calling my mom in hysterics because I came literally within an inch of a serious car crash due to some stupid fucking asshole pulling out in front of me in the snow. I got home, I'm safe, it might have still undone all the confidence I built up since my first (only) car accident in January 2015.

I've already texted my boss like 'I will cry if I try to come in tomorrow, will work from home.'

I've been there. The worst is having to slam on your brakes to not hit some idiot, and then you see the headlights behind you get closer and closer, and all you can do is hope that they saw you in time and their brakes work well. Bonus points if they only have one working headlight and are clearly on their phone.

Sochitelya wrote:Hooray for being 32 and calling my mom in hysterics because I came literally within an inch of a serious car crash due to some stupid fucking asshole pulling out in front of me in the snow. I got home, I'm safe, it might have still undone all the confidence I built up since my first (only) car accident in January 2015.

I've already texted my boss like 'I will cry if I try to come in tomorrow, will work from home.'

Car crashes are awful. My dad works in personal injury and a lot of his clients are people who have been in bad accidents. It's not at all uncommon for them to experience post-traumatic stress from the accident, even if they're experienced drivers and the accident was years ago. I'm glad to hear you made it home safe. Don't feel embarrassed about being nervous -- that sounds like a terrifying experience, and you should take some time to recuperate if you need it.

Sochitelya wrote:Hooray for being 32 and calling my mom in hysterics because I came literally within an inch of a serious car crash due to some stupid fucking asshole pulling out in front of me in the snow. I got home, I'm safe, it might have still undone all the confidence I built up since my first (only) car accident in January 2015.

I've already texted my boss like 'I will cry if I try to come in tomorrow, will work from home.'

I drove for years while I lived in the US, and I never once felt confident doing it despite not having actually crashed (unless you count a ditch and a bent plate...). I had to take a deep breath every time I released that brake.

I wish I had any advice or comfort for you, but I understand your fears and you're not alone.

Sochitelya wrote:Hooray for being 32 and calling my mom in hysterics because I came literally within an inch of a serious car crash due to some stupid fucking asshole pulling out in front of me in the snow. I got home, I'm safe, it might have still undone all the confidence I built up since my first (only) car accident in January 2015.

I've already texted my boss like 'I will cry if I try to come in tomorrow, will work from home.'

I feel you. This is why I hate riding bicycles now; I turned to cross at a crosswalk and some jackwagon pulled to a stop right in front me of in the damnable crosswalk. I couldn't stop and took a header over my handlebars and now every time I ride a bicycle I am reminded of that moment

Compelled to share this bundle of cute~

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Magics wrote:Compelled to share this bundle of cute~

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Eeeee! So adorable!